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VIETNAMESE-AMERICAN PEACE PARK 1993-2006
In 1989 Morley Safer and a 60 Minutes crew traveled to Vietnam to produce a piece called the "The Enemy". Many high-ranking Vietnamese officials such as Gen. Vo Nguyen Giap were interviewed, but the man who caught the heart of the American people was a professor of English in Hanoi named Nguyen Ngoc Hung.

Even though he fought for six years during the war with the Americans, Prof. Hung projected a compassionate, even charismatic image, and as a result was invited to come to the U.S. in 1990 on a tour promoting peace, friendship and reconciliation. One city he visited was Madison, Wisconsin. From there he was taken by local veterans to the Highground, Wisconsin’s Vietnam Veteran’s Memorial, located outside of Neillsville, Wisconsin.
During the Dove Mound dedication at the Highground, John Beaudin (Wa Kanja Hoohega), a Native American veteran of the war in Vietnam, spoke about the meaning of the Dove Mound.

"It is a spiritual place where you can go and let your mother, the Earth, hold you. Let the children play on it. Dance on it. Use it to unload your grief and pain, to renew and strengthen you. Lay back in the soft fold of its wings and let Mother Earth unburden you. Then get up and leave your troubles and cares there on the mound, as you walk away renewed and refreshed."
The Flag
Many years ago
In their country
I fought them
The enemy

Because I was told to
Because I believed...
Because that’s who I was
Then...

I took their flag
And brought it over here
My trophy
My prisoner of war

Today...
At The Highground
I looked at my enemy
And saw my brother
I returned his flag
To him
To his country
To his home

Because I am healing
Because that is who I Am
Today...
I looked into the eyes
Of my enemy
And saw
Myself
To kill him
Would be suicide
To love him
Would be salvation...
As told by a Vietnam veteran to
"Gii-Gii-Zhaab-O-Mii-Mii"
"Mourning Dove"

 

"I LOOKED INTO THE EYES OF MY ENEMY AND SAW MYSELF"
Of the many powerful monuments at the Highground, the one that most affected Hung was the Dove Mound. This grass-covered earthen mound is about 110 feet wingtip-to-wingtip. Its design, created by Vietnam veteran David Giffy, was inspired by Native American effigy mounds. Hung was taken to the mound and, after a captured NVA flag was returned to him, he was told the purpose of the Dove Mound. The American veterans told him that the Dove Mound was a powerful source of healing for them—it was a place to go to leave the pain of the war behind, to remember friends who had died during the war, and to remember friends who were still missing in Vietnam. After hearing this, Hung went to the Dove Mound, burned incense, and said a prayer for his younger brother, one of Vietnam’s more than 300,000 missing-in-action. His prayer had a profound impact on the American veterans there that day.

In 1993 I heard that Hung was coming to the U.S. again and arranged for him to speak in Madison. My purpose was to give some balance to what the people of Madison were hearing about the war in Vietnam. While organizing Hung’s schedule I heard for the first time about Hung’s visit to the Highground and the profound effect it had on both Hung and the American veterans.

I was so inspired by this event that I felt that this was what the people of Vietnam and the U.S. needed, a Peace Park, which would give the people of both countries a way to communicate on a deep, emotional and spiritual level. When I proposed the idea to Hung he immediately agreed and said he had wanted this since his visit to the Highground in 1990. The idea of the Vietnamese-American Peace Park was born.


Nguyen Ngoc Hung and Mike Boehm,
Madison, Wisconsin, in June 1993.

General Pham Hong Son, brother-in-law to General Vo Nguyen Giap, gives Mike Boehm a hug at the ground breaking ceremony of the Vietnamese-American Peace Park, May 11, 1995. Gen. Son said later that day "Most countries around the world continue to teach the younger generations about the horrors of war by building war monuments. Mike is changing that tradition by building a monument to peace."

"IN THE SPIRIT OF PEACE AND FRIENDSHIP...WE MEET AGAIN."
The Memorandum of Understanding for the Vietnamese-American Peace Park was signed in Hanoi on March 11, 1995. After the signing we drove 30 miles north of Hanoi to the site of the future peace park. There we planted trees and village elders held ceremonies praying to the Earth Gods for their permission and support to build this peace park. It was here that Gen. Pham Hong Son hugged me and later said to the Vietnamese reporters "Most countries around the world continue to teach the younger generations about war by building war monuments. Mike is changing that tradition by building a monument to peace."

Six months later the Vietnamese-American Peace Park was dedicated. Thirteen American veterans flew to Vietnam to attend this ceremony. Accompanying them was Madison Quaker, Betty Boardman. Betty traveled with six men on the ship Phoenix in 1967 to deliver medical supplies to Hai Phong and Hanoi. Her trip polarized our country back then but here she was hand-in-hand with former American soldiers dedicating the Vietnamese-American Peace Park.

Highlights of that day included planting trees together with Vietnamese veterans, our former enemies. We all know that planting a tree means having hope for the future. Planting trees with our former enemies in the hope that they would flourish as a symbol of peace was very powerful. Another highlight was the Peace Pipe Ceremony performed by Vietnam veteran David Giffey. David was also the creator of the Dove Mound at the Highground. With the guidance of a Native American spiritual leader David prayed to the sky, the four directions and then to the earth. After this I read, with Hung translating, a letter of congratulations and support by Anne and Emily Morrison Welsh. They are the widow and daughter of Norman Morrison who immolated himself in 1965 in front of Robert McNamara’s office at the Pentagon.

After the ceremonies we all went into the village for a simple lunch of sticky rice and peanuts.


Grandfather, Great Spirit, we point this pipe to the Heavens and ask you to look on the people of Vietnam and America as we share the dove of Peace in a spirit of friendship, and to guide our stips on a bridge of understanding between our two nations.

Glenn Clark, helicopter pilot during the war and Betty Boardman, anti-war activist demonstrating the need for reconciliation within our country.

THE VIETNAMESE-AMERICAN PEACE PARK HAS BEEN ‘LAID DOWN’
In Quaker language when a project has been ‘laid down’ it means that although the project no longer exists it has served its purpose. That purpose was to bring former enemies together to work for peace. Serving that purpose led to the series of dialogues that led to the creation of the My Lai Peace Park. Without the creation of the Vietnamese-American Peace Park there could never have been a My Lai Peace Park.

The main problem was the lack of the administration skills needed for the Vietnamese-American Peace Park to succeed. Over the years it became increasingly obvious that the administrative details had been carried out in such a way that it was no longer possible to proceed further. Our partner for this first peace park was Nguyen Ngoc Hung. While being a teacher of English, he is first and foremost a poet. It was his poetic sense that inspired us to make this attempt at building a peace park north of Hanoi.

Our partner for the My Lai Peace Park and our other programs in Vietnam is Mr. Phan Van Do. Mr. Do is also a poet but in addition he is also a very skilled administrator. It is because of his skills that we are succeeding with the My Lai Peace Park and our other programs in Quang Ngai province. But we would not have met Mr. Do without first meeting Mr. Hung.

This year small branches and pieces of roots were taken from trees at the Vietnamese-American Peace Park and taken to the My Lai Peace Park. There a ceremony will transfer the spiritual essence of the Vietnamese-American Peace Park to the My Lai Peace Park and so the first peace park will continue live and inspire people around the world.

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